The
smallest or "millimeter" way to change is simple: make a decision. You
can't get on the road to change until you make a decision. It's the
smallest way to get moving toward what you want to do. Acting passive is
unlikely to get you where you want to go. Yes, sometimes things fall
into place, but realize they can't come to you unless you invite them.
So whatever the change (big or small) needs to start with you and your
choices. Are you going to continue what you're doing and "hope"
something changes or are you going to decide to make things happen.
You'll find the very act of "deciding" can immediately shift your
perspective and invite the right kinds of things to come into your life.
Whether it's subconscious or conscious, once you've decided it's almost
like taking off blinders. Have you ever noticed that when you think
about something you'll start noticing similar things around you? Making
an active decision is the first "millimeter" step in the right
direction. So make a decision!